The recent article in the New York Times sheds light on what will no doubt be a growing concern in this country as the post-World War II demographic surge known as the Baby Boomers will be growing older.

Because Patrick and I are the caregivers for his 89 year-old grandfather, we are acutely aware of the strength of character it takes simply to grow that old and infirm. When you compound that with the discrimination of the health care institution or what one is forced to accept as one’s peers, the results can be devastating.

Elderly gay people like Ms. Donadello, living in nursing homes or assisted-living centers or receiving home care, increasingly report that they have been disrespected, shunned or mistreated in ways that range from hurtful to deadly, even leading some to commit suicide.

Some have seen their partners and friends insulted or isolated. Others live in fear of the day when they are dependent on strangers for the most personal care. That dread alone can be damaging, physically and emotionally, say geriatric doctors, psychiatrists and social workers.

New York Times … Jane Gray … 09 October 2007 …
                            Aging and Gay, and Facing Prejudice in Twilight

The multimedia feature is really worth a look.